Date : April 18, 2015
This often romanticized concept of the ideal other half has been kept alive in the human psyche since time immemorial and we are led to wonder why.
Soulmates are perceived as two people who share a unique and special bond and are often referred to as twin flames or twin souls. Two people so alike, yet opposite, who share an almost other world love for one another. Many people today strive to meet their perfect match.
The love associated with soulmates is seen as a kind of karmic reward, when a person is ready and willing to open their hearts to love another person unconditionally. At the root of things, most people genuinely simply want to be loved and accepted for who they are. The concept of such love is exactly this. A true acceptance of another person, exactly as they are.
Soulmates all over the world are seeking their other half, a search which has been made far easier by the invention of the Internet and subsequent dating websites. There are hundreds of dating websites online today that cater specifically to people who are seeking their lifetime partners. This is wonderful news to the single individual looking for their other half.
The search for your love may well lead you along interesting paths, but no matter how many disappointments you suffer in the dating game, do not give up hope! Once you meet your other half, you will have an inner sense of knowing. No one will be able to tell you what this is like, it is something that you can only experience on a level of feeling, of emotion.
The bond between such people is so powerful that many can communicate on a deeper level. They will instinctively know things about the other person in an almost psychic sense. They will share a harmony of feeling and thought that will be quite obvious to others. They feel a sense of connection quite unlike any other relationship they will share in their lives.
Aside from perhaps joining clubs or groups that share similar interests, you may also consider joining dating clubs and websites that cater to people who are specifically looking to meet their perfect partner. There you will find an atmosphere where like-minded souls are gathering in their search for their other half.
It stands to reason that this is a more likely venue than say, looking for your ideal partner on a dating website geared to those seeking casual sex partners. A soulmate connection extends beyond sex and encompasses a deep degree of true love and acceptance. Such a person is not a perfect being, but they are your ideal and perfect match, your true compliment.
We should all be so lucky to find, even once in our lifetimes, a person who loves us so completely and so unerringly. Great tales have been told throughout history of this kind of love and it stands as a reminder to those of us who seek such a love that it does exist. You are as worthy of the deep love of your ideal partner as any other person. Remember this, to love yourself, so that your love for yourself and all that you are can overflow and draw to you your soulmate.
What Is A SoulMate?
Date : April 18, 2015
This is a timeless question and a quest embarked upon by many; the search for a soul companion to share your life and dreams.
The concept of a soulmate has existed in the mind of man from his earliest origins. Ancient man believed that the soul was cloven in two at its creation and that these two halves were went out into the world to learn and to grow. Once they find one another again, man will be whole and complete with a wealth of experiences to share with his other half.
The concept has been romanticized in many cultures and some fantastical qualities have been assigned to soulmates. The belief is that one will experience instant recognition of your other half upon meeting. Think Romeo and Juliet without the bad ending. A soulmate is defined as another person who makes an instant connection with you on a deeper level.
This person will understand your motivations and be able to key into you on an emotional level. A soul mate will accept you with unconditional love and will return that love without reservation. It is considered a very pure kind of love. Some are jaded and do not believe in the concept of soul mates, but others hang onto the belief that they exist and will settle for nothing less than a soul mate connection.
Finding your soul mate is really up to divine timing. To be in the right place, at the right moment is a feat that can only be achieved by forces beyond our understanding. The two souls have to be ready to embrace this type of deep abiding love with open hearts and open minds.
Many people mistake soul mate relationships for something else. A soul mate’s love is unconditional. They do not love you because you are the director of a large corporation, are wealthy, live in a fine house in the most upmarket area in Johannesburg or because you have a parking garage filled with exotic cars. A soul mate connection goes beyond material pursuits.
Soul mates share a unique connection and will often know what the other person is going to say before they say it. They will do peculiar things like finish one another’s sentences or will be able to anticipate the other person’s needs. Soul mates give of themselves freely to the other person.
Many people seek this type of connection or relationship, but are not ready to truly accept it into their lives. To be able to attract this kind of connection with another living soul, you have to have a degree of enlightenment, a degree of maturity on a soul level.
Be open to love, forgive the petty things, look for the best in people and approach your life with a positive attitude and you may find that your soulmate is just around the next corner. How will you know them when you see them? This is something unique to each person, but I can guarantee that at your first meeting, you will feel a sense of recognition and as though you have known them all your life, even though you have just them.
The Truth Behind Dating Relationships To Find Your Soulmate
Date : April 18, 2015
An informative look at the signs and symptoms that you have found the right person for you and how to know when you need to keep looking.
Dating relationships are as unique as the two people who take the headlong plunge into the murky waters of romance. The journey to find your soulmate is not an easy one for most. We may hear tales of two souls who meet in preschool and who, fifty years later, are happily married, but this is rare.
For those of you who have not enjoyed such good fortune in the romance department, you may find that dating relationships come and go while you search to find your soulmate. The question to ask is, how do you know when you have found the right one?
For some, it is as simple as a mutual, instant attraction that draws the two individuals together. You will know when you find your soulmate, for this one person will be the one you think of first when you wake up and they will be your last thought as you close your eyes at night. You will both find yourselves wanting to spend every free moment together and will constantly be amazed at your fascination with one another.
Dating relationships do, of course, vary from individual to individual. Not everyone may find this instant spark of attraction. Some love grows over time and what may begin as a casual dating relationship may strengthen into a deep abiding love for one another.
Your strongest guide, believe it or not, is your intuition. Positive feelings and experiences are your best guide. Is there a mutual feeling of happiness and excitement when you are together? Does this relationship stand out for you against all others? Are you being treated with respect? Does the other person make you smile, even when they are not around?
Have they spoken about you to their friends and family and have they started introducing you into their inner circle? Do they call you often and make plans to meet up with you? Do they surprise you with thoughtful gestures and do they take the time to discuss issues important to them, with you? Do you share similar viewpoints on topics that both interest you?
Relationships that are following this pattern are certainly pointing to something that may well evolve into a long-term or even a lifelong commitment. However, there are also signs that may well point to a relationship that will not last.
Again, use your emotional compass as a barometer. Do you end the date feeling uncertain or even unhappy about the way things went? Do they speak openly about their friends, family and lifestyle or do you get a sense that things are being concealed from you? Does your potential partner talk about introducing you to their friends?
Do they hesitate to make future plans with you, or do they only make arrangements to see you mid-week, always somehow ‘busy’ over weekends? Do they call you infrequently? Do they seem distracted or disinterested during telephone or face to face conversations?
These are tell-tale signs that this particular dating relationship may not be the right one for you.