Date : April 18, 2015
What do women really want when they agree to meet for a date? This age old question deserves an answer.
In an attempt to define the art of dating women one has to take a closer look at the typical human female of the species. No two women are alike and this leaves most men in a quandary over how to approach a woman that he feels drawn to. Any woman, no matter if she be old, young, reserved, spontaneous, a quietly spoken femme fatale or a rough and tumble biker babe, is going to appreciate being spoken to with respect.
A woman wants to be acknowledged, treated with kindness, affection and appreciation. These concepts may sound far too simple to be believable, but even in this modern age of the emancipated woman, being a gentleman and treating a lady with respect still goes a long way. Treat a woman like an equal and you will be pleasantly surprised by her reaction.
Women want to be around people who make them feel good about themselves. Indeed, I think every person wants this. Still, do not be afraid to compliment a woman on her appearance, on her taste in music, clothing, furniture, movies and so forth. A woman will be drawn to someone who can stimulate her intellect and make her laugh.
Engage a woman in witty conversation, discuss things that interest her, make an effort to find out what she is passionate about. Consideration is the key. This sort of approach is to be used within reason of course. Not every woman you meet is going to spark your interest intellectually but the goal when dating women is to find common ground.
A woman is not going to enjoy a lengthy diatribe about sports if this is not her sphere of interest. You may not feel inclined to discuss the benefits of hairspray for an hour and a half – another key is compromise. Find a subject you both enjoy. Dating women is not a science and the experience should be enjoyable for both of you.
Be honest. When you first begin dating women you might be tempted to spin tales about certain aspects of your life, but at the end of the day if the relationship progresses you may well be caught out in your lie. Be open-minded and if you find yourself faced with a subject that you do not know anything about, do not dismiss it off-hand.
This can be an extremely off-putting approach. Listen, learn and do not be afraid to admit your ignorance if you are faced with a topic you know nothing about. Your lady friend will most likely be happy to explain things to you, particularly if it is a subject of interest to her. You are never too old to learn something new.
Be generous. This does not mean that you should part with the paper in your wallet. Be generous with yourself. Listen, engage in the conversation, be easy and relaxed, laugh, make eye contact. During conversation momentarily touch her hand or arm to let her know that you are interested in what she has to say. Dating women should be an enjoyable experience for you both.